If the man pays his child support gets his kids every weekend.. Is there for his children no matter what( saying going to all the school advents and games).. Why is he and his new wife called selfish when they decided to have a child together.. If he knows he will always be there for his other children and knows he can afford to pay for his first kids and knows he can afford to have a child with his new wife then why not.. Why do people still say he is selfish for this?? Why cant people just be happy?? Please I would like to know this..Answer Question
Asked by Anonymous at 9:24 PM on Jun. 21, 2010 in General Parenting
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IMO, as a woman who went through a divorce with children.... A man that had kids was a BIG NO NO. Here's the fact Hon and you can take with it what you want, but at some point you are going to feel slighted and you and your child are going to feel those consequences. No good can come of it. You WILL at some point wonder why this man is paying child support for some kids that aren't even yours... yes, you will!! You WILL at some point wonder why his time is going to those other kids and not your own. To me, a woman that marries a guy that has children already, and then wants more herself is only looking for problems. It's all part of the great plan... Good luck.
So, a man that had kids and got divorced is not allowed to be happy ever again? Does that go for women too or just men?
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