I know my husband has been masturbating A LOT! And it grosses me out. Not only that but he ALWAYS turns me down. Not just mostly, its every time. It doesn't matter how I try to come on to him, he just "doesn't feel like it". But then that night he jerks off! I'm DONE with it! And he KNOWS it bugs me, I told him! But apparently I didn't say the correct words. What can I say that might make him change!?
Asked by Anonymous at 12:03 PM on Jun. 23, 2010 in Relationships
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Answer by Anonymous at 12:58 PM on Jun. 23, 2010
Honestly, it's time for a break. Tell him EXACTLY how you feel, what you've seen, and what you want out of your relationship (in KIND and CALM words). Be completely honest and point blank about this so that there is no misunderstanding. Tell him that you need a break, that you cannot be with someone that prefers his secret office/bathroom life to his wife. Then leave for a while so he can have time to think. Try marriage counseling, and if he refuses to go, go alone. If he doesn't want to work things out, there's nothing more that you can do. I know it'll hurt, but it will be for the best I think. His addiction is just like any other addiction out there and he is the only one that can get help for himself.
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