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Do you keep secrets from your husband?

If so, do you feel it is wrong? Or do you feel you are entitled to keep a few things from your husband?


Asked by Anonymous at 10:07 PM on Jun. 24, 2010 in Relationships

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Answers (17)
  • I feel I am a person separate from him and therefore entitled to my own feelings and yes maybe secrets that have nothing to do with him.

    Answer by jamesonjustines at 10:08 PM on Jun. 24, 2010

  • when I bitch to my friends about things that don't really matter much. . .they just are female things, yes I do. but not much, and when he does (if) find out, it's not that big of a deal.

    Answer by Amber211 at 10:08 PM on Jun. 24, 2010

  • yes! There are some things he doesn't need to know. Why fight about stupid little things when you can just not tell him. As long as you're not hurting him or anyone else in the process not telling him everything isn't a bad thing.

    Answer by mrsjonzy at 10:10 PM on Jun. 24, 2010

  • I don't tell him everything. Something minor- a small health issue, or if someone has asked me to keep a secret, for example.

    Answer by Bmat at 10:10 PM on Jun. 24, 2010

  • Nope. I never have. I dont feel that would be helpful to the marriage at all.

    Answer by RheaF at 10:10 PM on Jun. 24, 2010

  • Yeah sometimes. Dont say you dont ladies.

    Answer by lowencope at 10:07 PM on Jun. 24, 2010

  • nope never.

    Answer by mommyagain at 10:08 PM on Jun. 24, 2010

  • If it's something he normally wouldn't care about anyways- i just see it as why bother to tell him. But I never do anything major enough to hide from my husband anyways. If he ever asked about something or my past or anything I would tell him if he wanted to know.

    Answer by BabyBeans0506 at 10:10 PM on Jun. 24, 2010

  • I almost always tattle on myself. But Yes, I have a few secrets.. because I was being stupid when drinking. But its nothing serious, if it was serious I would have told him by now.

    Answer by MJ_BN_FE at 10:16 PM on Jun. 24, 2010

  • No, never! I'm in this relationship 100%... if I was keeping things from him, I wouldn't be and their would be no reason for the relationship at all...

    Answer by SabrinaMBowen at 10:08 PM on Jun. 24, 2010

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