So it's late, we're getting ready to go to bed... and we're in the middle of being VERY intimate... when baby awakens. Usually it's a simple "shhh..." and he's out, but not tonight. I go to grab my robe, while doing so husband asks "what are you doing?" .... uhh, duh, getting up with baby?! "Oh... well will you close the door then?" and rolls over, covering up and getting cozy in bed by himself.
It's hard enough getting a moment to ourselves to be "together"... but does he have to be so insensitive about it?! I mean really! I really don't care if I'm overreacting, it's still not fair you seem to purposely ignore my feelings at all and get to go to sleep while I get up with a crying/hungry/wet infant.
Am I alone here in feeling completely stepped on?!
....and NO bitchy answers, I'm not in the mood, I'm already mad/upsey enough. Someone please give me some consolation!
Asked by Anonymous at 12:56 AM on Jun. 25, 2010 in Relationships
Answer by outstandingLove at 12:59 AM on Jun. 25, 2010
Answer by SolaraDarkset at 1:02 AM on Jun. 25, 2010
I agree with the PP he need to understand the baby comes first no matter what.
Answer by Mom2princessq at 1:02 AM on Jun. 25, 2010
Answer by DomoniqueWS at 1:02 AM on Jun. 25, 2010
I wish I were a SAHM! Not just yet.... we recently just became debt free (yay Dave Ramsey and Financial Peace!) and we're saving for a house, so my current income is TOTALLY going toward that fund. I don't really mind working, it's easier knowing it's not permanent, and glad we can agree that it's only temporary. He works full time, yes. You have a good point, and now that I pretty much have cooled down, I'm still upset but more toward the fact that my feelings are hurt. I feel incompetent... like I can't please him anymore (since I still have all my baby weight and feel like a beast, yuck!)....
Answer by 1st_time_mom23 at 1:05 AM on Jun. 25, 2010
Answer by prdill08 at 1:06 AM on Jun. 25, 2010
Answer by DomoniqueWS at 1:07 AM on Jun. 25, 2010
Answer by chipper87 at 1:08 AM on Jun. 25, 2010
Answer by Princess223 at 1:08 AM on Jun. 25, 2010
Answer by xxhazeldovexx at 1:11 AM on Jun. 25, 2010
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