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Please dont bash. I need suggestions. Hes physically, verbally, mentally abusive to me. Not all the time...like every few months or so. But he shouldnt be doing it at all. Im just afraid for my kids. How are they going to handle not being with daddy. Where do I go? Im afraid he will come to wherever I am at and harrass me and whoever Im around at the time. I dont have a job or a license to drive. (got a ticket and hubby wont pay it so I can get my license back) I am going to school online but I dont graduate for another 9 months. I need so support without being bashed and this is the only way to do it anonymously. Thank you mommas.Answer Question
Asked by Anonymous at 3:02 PM on Sep. 28, 2008 in Relationships
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I have been in your shoes, you are not alone. I had three children when I finally got out my abusive marriage. My children are doing better than ever before.
You need to set up an escape plan. Call 1-800-799-SAFE it is the National Domestic Violence Hotline. They will help you to plan an escape and will help find the resources in your local community. Have a local DV advocate help you to obtain an order of protection. The order is only good for two weeks unless you show up for the hearing and request that it last for a year. It can also be renewed yearly.
Space is limited here please PM or email me for more info or support. You are in my prayers!
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