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my sex life is dull please help

hi, what can i do to make things little more intrrested in my bedroom with my husband,because he likes watching porn and he does it secretly so that i can't find out.

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zendha

Asked by zendha at 4:36 AM on Jun. 25, 2010 in Relationships

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  • would you be willing to watch porn with him?
    lendales_mommi

    Answer by lendales_mommi at 4:38 AM on Jun. 25, 2010

  • yes i would do so if only he invite me to do so,but he never does.
    zendha

    Comment by zendha (original poster) at 4:49 AM on Jun. 25, 2010

  • Why not tell him you want to watch it with him?
    Ginger0104

    Answer by Ginger0104 at 4:57 AM on Jun. 25, 2010

  • Just ask him to watch porn together. And try new stuff. New posotions.. Ask him to describe a fantasy and if you're into it, do it.
    pipermomofash

    Answer by pipermomofash at 5:00 AM on Jun. 25, 2010

  • how,he is a close book to me,and i have tried but nothing happens. do they get embarresed or what. i really want things to be good.or should i buy it myself and just surprise him would it work?
    zendha

    Comment by zendha (original poster) at 5:02 AM on Jun. 25, 2010

  • thanks pipermomfash i will do so sounds like a good idea.
    zendha

    Comment by zendha (original poster) at 5:05 AM on Jun. 25, 2010

  • Yes, buy some porn and surprise him! Good idea! Maybe he thinks you don't aprove of the whole thing. Have you talked about it?
    pipermomofash

    Answer by pipermomofash at 5:08 AM on Jun. 25, 2010

  • thanks all of you i really appreciate it is really good to share with other women at last. its fun thanks
    zendha

    Comment by zendha (original poster) at 5:09 AM on Jun. 25, 2010

  • first off dont blame yourself for him hiding porn from you! It's a hot topic for me so I won't "preach" lol but I don't want you to feel its your fault for hiding it cause things are "dull" in the bedroom.
    ColtsFan1912

    Answer by ColtsFan1912 at 5:11 AM on Jun. 25, 2010

  • no not really it seems as it is a sensitive subject. but i think i will follow all the advice given.
    zendha

    Comment by zendha (original poster) at 5:14 AM on Jun. 25, 2010

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