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I keep being told that you are not supposed to leave your husband no matter what and all that mess. My husband will get drunk (occassionally) and call me just about every name in the book. I have heard whore, bitch, lazy, stupid and others. If I fall asleep before him he will come and and slap me on the butt. That is prob meant as picking but I think it is disrespectful to do something like that when someone is asleep. He has even told me he is tired of my mess and has said to leave. I don't do nothing but take care of this house but yet he is tired of my mess? How stupid. Last night he called me lazy and I said he is the one lazyt b/c he won't (barely) help me with the kids. I have to deal with this stupid mess everytme he drinks. If I had money and a place to go now I would pack my mess nd leave. My question to you all is when would you draw the line? When would you give up on your marriage?Answer Question
Asked by Anonymous at 8:42 AM on Jun. 25, 2010 in Relationships
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Answer by LoriKeet at 8:54 AM on Jun. 25, 2010
You are probably going to have to leave in order for him to take you seriously. Either he changes or he doesn't. Be prepared for him not to. Don't believe the "baby I will change I promise" bull either. If he doesn't change just remember you are better off without him and his crap. And do all this when he is sober. If you do it while he is drinking you risk having to deal with a drunken rage. They always treat their women like shit, but can't stand for them to leave.
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