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13 and pregnant...

What would you do if your 13 yr. old was pregnant or got someone pregnant?

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Asked by believejohn316 at 4:40 AM on Jun. 26, 2010 in General Parenting

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  • I'd encourage her to keep the baby and finish school and be smart about it, or if she wanted to do adoption id support her too

    Answer by MomNbabyGirl009 at 4:43 AM on Jun. 26, 2010

  • I would talk to her about her options and help her make the decision that is best for her and the baby.

    Answer by ErinRenee815 at 4:45 AM on Jun. 26, 2010

  • I don't know. My oldest is only 10 right now.... but if that where to happen at 13 I would cry.... then I would let her know what her options are and go from there.


    Answer by soonmommyof3 at 4:46 AM on Jun. 26, 2010

  • although I do not believe in abortion unless it's life threatening. Even then I would pray that god would be forgiving and merciful.


    Answer by soonmommyof3 at 4:47 AM on Jun. 26, 2010

  • it is their choice and i will stand by them no matter what.

    Answer by luvmyaustin at 5:13 AM on Jun. 26, 2010

  • I would support her and if necessary take over the responsibilities of bringing up her baby. I would help her be a mother but at the same time would take over as much as I could to help take the pressure off if it is too overwhelming. It depends though on how my child feels about the situation but I would hope that they would not want an abortion and I am not sure a 13 year old could make that decision. I think it would depend on the maturity of my 13 year old and whether I could really leave the decision 100% in her hands.

    Answer by keyaziz at 5:15 AM on Jun. 26, 2010

  • Cry and then figure out what to do.

    Answer by kuriequinn at 5:38 AM on Jun. 26, 2010

  • Call the police and get to Planned Parenthood

    Answer by rkoloms at 7:38 AM on Jun. 26, 2010

  • I would deal with the best I knew how, without the drama.

    Answer by older at 9:27 AM on Jun. 26, 2010

  • I would raise the child as my own so she could finish school and live a normal life.

    Answer by motherofhope98 at 10:11 AM on Jun. 26, 2010

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