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why, if you have a husband or wife would you still want to have solo sex?

seriously, i understand if you are by yourself for a while or if you haven't had sex in a long time.. but if your partner is always willing why would you want to do it alone? i don't get it..


Asked by Anonymous at 3:33 PM on Jun. 27, 2010 in Relationships

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  • How many people have partners who are ALWAYS willing and available?? Sometimes the other person is not home, not feeling well, not in the mood, on her period, etc. Sometimes you just don't have the time or opportunity. Besides, sex and masturbation don't necessarily meet the same needs or even feel the same. Sometimes you're in the mood for one, sometimes the other. As long as masturbating doesn't interfere with your sex life with your partner, I don't see why it matters.

    Answer by jessradtke at 6:28 PM on Jun. 27, 2010

  • Nothing wrong with it unless it keeps you from having sex with your partner.

    Answer by Cochise at 3:35 PM on Jun. 27, 2010

  • lol, I've never figured that one out. if you don't like having sex with your partner that much, why are you with them? Seems weird to me.

    Answer by Tes...Jacksmami at 3:59 PM on Jun. 27, 2010

  • You mean masturbation?

    Answer by JayRo00 at 3:33 PM on Jun. 27, 2010

  • Lol, maybe your partner's technique isn't the best???

    Answer by Lifes-A-Dance at 3:35 PM on Jun. 27, 2010

  • As long as you aren't substituting masturbation for sex it's normal. Hubby and I each have our alone time now and then.

    Answer by rhianna1708 at 3:37 PM on Jun. 27, 2010

  • Maybe they are too tired? sex is more exhausting then masturbating.

    Answer by jessran1218 at 3:38 PM on Jun. 27, 2010

  • My S.O. claims he doesn't have solo sex(masturbate) but i think he's lying. it's completely normal.

    Answer by EttaMay at 4:19 PM on Jun. 27, 2010

  • It happens. If you are talking about a guy, they have been doing it all their lives. It feels good so why would they want to stop? It is not a big deal. Women tend to be less into it but some women still like solo time.

    Answer by bjane01 at 4:20 PM on Jun. 27, 2010

  • men are men... thats what they do.

    Answer by Mel_in_PHX at 4:42 PM on Jun. 27, 2010

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