Let me start by saying that I have no intention of splitting up the family, unless the relationship were to become abusive or if he crossed a line that is harmful to the kids (smoking p*t in front of them or something like that). I do believe that his smoking habit is a big part of the problem. He is a big jerk when he is out or doesn't have the opportunity to do it. He knows I wish he would quit, but all I ask is that he is discreet and doesn't let the kids smell it or see him like that.
The thought of spending the rest of my life with this man makes me very unhappy, but I did make vows for better or worse. I keep praying that it will get better, but it is hard to keep having hope that it will.
Anyone else in a similar situation?
Asked by Anonymous at 12:38 AM on Jun. 28, 2010 in Relationships
I live it every day. My dh has to be high 24/7 or he will begin to have withdrawal symptoms and get super moody. He has spent money that we don't have on pot, has dropped baggies in random public places and had to pick them up, he is most assuredly an addict. If he and his friends run out he will start calling around like a crack head, begging strangers for a free bowl. Yes smoking is an issue and yes I feel your pain. I wish he would put the pipe down and just quit, putting his family 1st for once. Pot heads don't get it though hun. They feel like pot is just the greatest thing in the world and that they can still be good husbands/fathers/etc while stoned. Well, when it starts affecting your marriage, it's NOT okay. I'll keep you in my prayers, only he can stop and if he won't, it's gonna hurt you bad inside. I do every day.
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