I am in my third trimester. My fiancee travels for his job so I only see him 7 days out of a month. Before I got pregnant and in my first and secound trimester, we were having crazy fun sex. Every since I hit my third trimester, he doesnt like having sex and I want it all the time.
He gives it to me when he is home maybe about every other day which is fine but he isnt turned on and he only gives it to me because I pout or want it.
We have only been together for a year so I have been pregnant most of the time.
Why is he so turned off? Why do some men not want to have sex? Will this completely change our relationship after the babies born? Ugh, so many questions. I just want it to be back to normal.
Asked by Anonymous at 1:13 AM on Jun. 28, 2010 in Relationships
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Answer by randilinn at 7:39 AM on Jun. 28, 2010
It could be he is afraid of hurting the baby, or it could be that being 3rd trimester the baby bump is definitely there and he is not sure how to work around it, or it could be that seeing the baby bump turns his sex drive off and triggers him to think about other things-- like impending fatherhood and responsibilities. Have you talked to him about this and how your feel? If not I think you should.
Answer by MizLee at 8:27 AM on Jun. 28, 2010