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We have a very intimate physical relationship. We are kind of into BDSM.
We used to argue a ton at first then found our common thing was BDSM. I wanted to be submissive in the room, but not treated as such in the real world.

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Anonymous

Asked by Anonymous at 2:37 AM on Jun. 28, 2010 in Relationships

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  • I don't know what the question is here...
    Blueliner

    Answer by Blueliner at 2:39 AM on Jun. 28, 2010

  • Didn't realize this was a 2 part "question"...
    Blueliner

    Answer by Blueliner at 2:43 AM on Jun. 28, 2010

  • I think that is an abusive relationship and he might not respect you... He needs to respect you.
    smokisses

    Answer by smokisses at 2:44 AM on Jun. 28, 2010

  • for many people being dominate or submissive is a way of life and it crosses over, some keep it only in the bedroom. Anytime you enter the BDSM world you need to be very clear about the rules with each other. It may be helpful for the two of you to sit and talk about it and maybe even talk to others who are in the lifestyle and ask how they set their limits.
    3_ring_circus_

    Answer by 3_ring_circus_ at 3:05 AM on Jun. 28, 2010

  • SO and I are like that but once the sex is over he knows I'm not about to take on the sub role.
    admckenzie

    Answer by admckenzie at 8:50 AM on Jun. 28, 2010

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