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Does your SO/hubby know how many parteners you've had. I'm struggling.....

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Asked by Anonymous at 12:42 PM on Jun. 28, 2010 in Relationships

Answers (14)
  • yes

    Answer by MommyH2 at 12:45 PM on Jun. 28, 2010

  • Yes. And I know how many he has had.

    Answer by kuriequinn at 12:49 PM on Jun. 28, 2010

  • I think he knows the approximate number, and he doesn't care to know any more. He doesn't like to think about my sex life before I met him.

    Answer by vicesix at 12:51 PM on Jun. 28, 2010

  • No, but only because he hasn't asked. He's always seemed really uncomfortable talking about MY past but has always answered every question I've asked about his.

    Answer by jessicarae787 at 12:51 PM on Jun. 28, 2010

  • Yes

    Answer by starestrada at 12:55 PM on Jun. 28, 2010

  • I really don't think it's information they need to know. Some guys drive themselves crazy thinking about that stuff. I mean, unless you attempted a world record or something and it's on film I don't see how it matters. (Of course, I would expect a partner to be tested and cleared first if they had lots of unprotected sex previously. Any unprotected in fact. It only takes one.)

    Answer by LittleWeloosMom at 12:55 PM on Jun. 28, 2010

  • My hubby knows how many I have had. He has told me few different amounts he probably doesn't know with all the pot he smoked while a teenager. I don't care, he doesn't have any children that aren't mine also and he doesn't have any diseases.

    Answer by matthewscandi at 12:59 PM on Jun. 28, 2010

  • If your partner is using this against you he doesn't love you the way he should. I'm sorry. My husband and I know about each other and other than his kids it doesn't matter. It should never matter when you love someone in a mature way.

    Answer by LauraMi261 at 1:04 PM on Jun. 28, 2010

  • i think for the most part he does, I've only had 3 serious relationships one of them the last 11 years with my hubby, the other one resulted in a child at a very young age and one in between that was a real mess that lasted almost 2 years until I met my husband. He has never asked me and I have never asked it, it really has not mattered to us. I know for a fact my husband has had more partners than I prior to my time, but I guess in all fairness that is in the past.

    Answer by LuvmyFam6 at 1:05 PM on Jun. 28, 2010

  • lol nope, but I dunno his and I don't care

    Answer by June_Mama09 at 1:05 PM on Jun. 28, 2010

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