Without going into too much detail, I'll try to summarize. Our OA with our first child's bfamily was wonderful for the first four years, but then bmom started using again. After she showed up high for a visit a few months ago and made a big scene, we decided that we'd have to wait to have face-to-face visits with her until she'd been clean a while. All other contact continues, and phone calls are very welcome. We planned to still have visits with the rest of the maternal bfamily. We had a visit planned for this last weekend and I talked to Grandma (bmom's mom) and explained again that I wanted to wait to see bmom until she'd been clean a while, and Grandma said she wasn't going to tell her that we were coming. She did end up telling her, but bmom couldn't make it because of other committments. Now I'm nervous about visiting since I feel that my trust was violated (cont).
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