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What do you think of a 30 year old hanging out with a 15 and 17 year old? (the 17 year old has altisum so she has a mind of a 7 year old)

I have these neighbors that moved in 2 year ago and then these other ones that moved in a few months ago, but this lady next door is 30 years old her new friend next door to her that has been here a few months has 2 girls 15 and 17 the 17 year old has autism so she has a mind of a 7 year old this lady rides her bije(30 years old) and races the girls up and down the street like a little kid. These kids are always at her house with her and her 54 year old DH. She also lets the 17 year old that has the mind of a 7 year old babysit her 16 month old baby. isn't there something wrong with this picture? I find it strange that a 33 year old lady wants to hang with teen kids nad that she allows the girl with autism to watch her baby.


Asked by Anonymous at 11:21 PM on Jun. 29, 2010 in General Parenting

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Answers (9)
  • A little strange.

    Answer by sta517 at 11:23 PM on Jun. 29, 2010

  • Maybe just being nice and has a good heart but not knowing all of the details...creepy!

    Answer by ABusyBee at 11:22 PM on Jun. 29, 2010

  • Hmmm yes I find it a little odd. The babysitting her child was a poor decision I think but she could just be being friendly and nice. And then there are always the people who feel like kids themselves at at heart so that's always a possibility.

    Answer by Ash9724 at 11:24 PM on Jun. 29, 2010

  • How do you know the child has autism??
    Im not sure the full story is being told here.... something isnt right. Sorry!
    Most kids with autism are very brilliant!

    Answer by Shaneagle777 at 11:25 PM on Jun. 29, 2010

  • Strange and inappropriate.

    Answer by wildflowers25 at 11:29 PM on Jun. 29, 2010

  • WEIRD!!

    Answer by michelle146 at 11:31 PM on Jun. 29, 2010

  • I am the OP the 33 year old told me that her mom told her that she has autism and that she has a mind of a 7 year old is what she told me.

    Answer by mommy5409 at 11:34 PM on Jun. 29, 2010

  • It's not all that weird. My SIL is about to be 31 and acts like a child around my girls. I had to limit the amount of time spent... Some people just aren't very mature, and find comfort in people that aren't mature as well.

    Answer by lovinangels at 11:34 PM on Jun. 29, 2010

  • to each their own I long as there is no abuse and everyone is eating then let life move on

    Answer by wheresthewayout at 12:44 AM on Jun. 30, 2010