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How would you handle this?


Two nieces from different sides of the family. (One my side, one DH's side) Both picked the same wedding date in different states.

What to do?

 
mancosmomma

Asked by mancosmomma at 11:26 AM on Jun. 30, 2010 in Relationships

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Answers (13)
  • As unhappy as I would be about it I would go to my niece's wedding and have my husband go to his, unless you both are closer to one of them. I would try to go to some of the showers for both girls. Are the states close enough (and times different enough) that you could possibly get to both weddings? Get creative!!
    elizabr

    Answer by elizabr at 11:30 AM on Jun. 30, 2010

  • Wow! I'm Sorry. That's a real toughie.. Who are you closer too? Is it the same? This one I can't call. Sorry!!
    Angellinda

    Answer by Angellinda at 11:27 AM on Jun. 30, 2010

  • I guess it depends on who is more close to you all.
    shanlaree

    Answer by shanlaree at 11:27 AM on Jun. 30, 2010

  • send hubby to the one on his side, you go to the one on your side
    IDK
    tough call.
    DarkFaery131

    Answer by DarkFaery131 at 11:30 AM on Jun. 30, 2010

  • i m very mad w/ my DH now so i will tell u to choose ur niece but this isn t the right answer.talk w/ ur DH and depending on how s the relationship w/ ur niece how is ur DH's relationship w/ his niece u both can decide.
    Imane1215

    Answer by Imane1215 at 11:31 AM on Jun. 30, 2010

  • Thats a real hard decision since ones on your side and ones on your husbands. I would talk to my husband and decide which one is more important for you all to attend and sorry you would have to miss the other wedding.
    giovannismom19

    Answer by giovannismom19 at 11:31 AM on Jun. 30, 2010

  • I agree with the above post or maybe your husband can video tape his niece wedding so you want miss a thing. I hope it works out for everyone good luck.
    mamaofficer

    Answer by mamaofficer at 11:33 AM on Jun. 30, 2010

  • If I went to one of them I would pick the niece I am closer to. (not meaning living closer to)
    itsallabtthem84

    Answer by itsallabtthem84 at 11:35 AM on Jun. 30, 2010

  • Personally I would go to my family's wedding and send DH to his family's wedding.
    JazzlikeMraz

    Answer by JazzlikeMraz at 11:35 AM on Jun. 30, 2010

  • You go to one, husband go to another....or just flip a coin.
    keyaziz

    Answer by keyaziz at 11:36 AM on Jun. 30, 2010

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