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Would you be OK with this ladies?

Hubby starts drinking beer. I hate it when he drinks and he knows this but doesn't care.
OK whatever, I go to bed.
He invites a friend over (friend is female)
She of course brings more beer because for whatever reason they cannot hang out together sober.
I wake up this morning to find that he was asleep in the spare room with her.
He thinks I should be OK with this!
It's not the first time it has happened either.


Asked by DarkFaery131 at 1:02 PM on Jun. 30, 2010 in Relationships

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Answers (30)
  • nope, not ok with me

    Answer by peanutsmommy1 at 1:03 PM on Jun. 30, 2010

  • WOW, that bitch would be out of my house with a big red hand mark on her face. Then hubby would be running away from me with a baseball bat in my hand. I don't put up with that crap. Who is this lady & how well & how long have they known each other?

    My best friend is a male & we liek to drink together. No matter how many times we've been shitfaced together, i would NEVER EVER snuggle in bed with him. That is a line that should not have been crossed by your DH. What is his excuse for not coming to bed with you? This bitch would be so scared of me, she wouldn't come abck to my house. I SWEAR!

    Answer by samurai_chica at 1:06 PM on Jun. 30, 2010

  • Not only would I probably smack each one but i'd be filing for divorce really no I wouldn't be okay with it

    Answer by Mom2Jack04 at 1:03 PM on Jun. 30, 2010

  • Um NO!

    Answer by Mommy_0f_many at 1:03 PM on Jun. 30, 2010

  • NO, that isn't ok.

    Answer by MomMom23 at 1:04 PM on Jun. 30, 2010

  • Wow.. I definitely would not be okay with this? Why would he think you would? If they want to hangout then fine, but why would he ever feel the urge to go "lay" with another woman? How disrespectful.

    Answer by xxMasonsMommaxx at 1:06 PM on Jun. 30, 2010

  • NO!! I would not be ok with this!!! Sorry momma!!

    Answer by mommaof3girls24 at 1:04 PM on Jun. 30, 2010

  • Um .... No it's not OK.

    Answer by Cindy18 at 1:04 PM on Jun. 30, 2010

  • I wouldn't be ok with my hubby drinking with only one female friend alone,period, let alone him sleeping with her (I mean literally sleeping, not like "sleeping"). No, no, no. Don't let him think that's ok.

    Answer by mickstinator at 1:06 PM on Jun. 30, 2010

  • Is she your friend too? What the heck is that about anyway? No not ok..

    Answer by beyondhopes at 1:06 PM on Jun. 30, 2010