Everything that ever happened was his fault no matter what!!! Everything good that happened was always because of my mom because there was "no way he would ever do anything nice for us". Any type of punishment he tried to lay out was out of hatred not love... (The way I saw it.).
I then found out within the past couple of years that he was the reason that a lot of good things happened, even after I was grown and had moved out, but still needed help.... These things were his idea, not my mothers.....
Now, I have just welcomed a child into my home and I look at my discipline tactics and realize that I do a lot of the same things he did OUT OF LOVE! I realize now that the things he did were completely necessary!! Maybe sometimes he didn't handle everything perfectly, but no one does! I know that for a fact.
My question is: He is a very stand-offish person, not very emotional at all! He still intimidates me. How do I fix it?
Answer by SandraRh at 11:54 PM on Jun. 30, 2010
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