I have known my Hubby for 7 years we've been married for 5 years and through our relationship we have had alot of ups and downs. He is Latin and has a temper and is very old fashioned. It has taken me a while to understand that I will not change him and i'm accepting this all and making the best out of it. One thing that is so hard to get over though is my jealousy issues. My husband is not the type to go out much and he's usually home. He is self employed though so he comes and goes whenever he gets a job. He takes all his phone calls outside, which is weird to me, and sometimes he says he has to go do a few things and if i ask what he has to do or what time he'll be home he gets all mad at me thinking i want to control him, which makes me doubt him even more. I also am getting much worse to the point that i can't even stand him looking at another woman even if it is on TV! I don't say anything but...what is wrong with me?!!!
Asked by Anonymous at 2:19 PM on Jul. 1, 2010 in Relationships
Answer by NannyB. at 2:57 PM on Jul. 1, 2010
Answer by samurai_chica at 2:31 PM on Jul. 1, 2010
I'm the same way, but I think you have good reason to question some of his behaviors. I would check his phone when he's in the shower or something and if there's nothing there that will ease your mind.
Answer by youngmom33 at 2:22 PM on Jul. 1, 2010
Answer by SuperrMommyy at 2:23 PM on Jul. 1, 2010
I think your husband provokes your jealousy. It's the "not knowing" that makes you wonder what is going on. If you felt totally secure in your relationship, you would feel less jealous (some jealousy is normal, like if a chick hits on our man well..duh). He is not giving you the reliability that you need to feel secure. So, you go wndering "WFT is he doing, where is he going & why won't he tell me" If he can learn to be a littel more respectful & tell you where he is going & what he is doing, it could help. But, obviously you don't feel as if his eyes are only for you. This would make almost any women jealous.
Answer by samurai_chica at 2:30 PM on Jul. 1, 2010
Answer by kimigogo at 2:32 PM on Jul. 1, 2010
Answer by Niki_sd at 2:51 PM on Jul. 1, 2010
Answer by SuperrMommyy at 2:20 PM on Jul. 1, 2010
Answer by bjane01 at 3:09 PM on Jul. 1, 2010
Answer by Brianna-Ravae at 3:28 PM on Jul. 1, 2010