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how do yyou forgive an ex-husband who?????

called the police and claimed you were beating your 14 month old(not your child together)? how do you let it go and not want revenge?


Asked by Bearsjen at 3:06 PM on Jul. 1, 2010 in Relationships

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  • I would NOT forgive him, but I would not seek revenge either. Revenge is never a good thing. Karma is a bigger b**** than I could ever be!

    Answer by xxlilmomma09 at 3:22 PM on Jul. 1, 2010

  • I could NEVER forgive ANYONE for that.

    Answer by SuperrMommyy at 3:06 PM on Jul. 1, 2010

  • I couldn't forgive that. But I wouldn't seek revenge either.

    Answer by DawnA72 at 3:07 PM on Jul. 1, 2010

  • I don't think I could forgive him. That's just something you don't make up, especially about the mother of your child.

    Answer by Linds2Horse at 3:09 PM on Jul. 1, 2010

  • OMG! Why would someone do that?! I wouldn't forgive, I would leave. I wouldn't seek revenge, why stoop to their level?

    Answer by MeandMyBabes at 3:09 PM on Jul. 1, 2010

  • I don't think I could forgive that, but I would keep it in the past and move forward without seeking revenge. Something that terrible will come around to him in due time.

    Answer by Scuba at 3:10 PM on Jul. 1, 2010

  • You should watch Invictus : Forgiveness liberates the soul. It removes fear. That is why it is such a powerful weapon. ( This is a quote taken from the movie)


    Answer by youngmom33 at 3:11 PM on Jul. 1, 2010

  • I am trying to forgive him, but so far I just want to rip his face off lol....ty for the support. the police came here, had to LOOK at my precious baby...only to find ex was making it up with is girlfriend....still.mean man, bad....

    Comment by Bearsjen (original poster) at 3:12 PM on Jul. 1, 2010

  • “When you hold resentment toward another, you are bound to that person or condition by an emotional link that is stronger than steel. Forgiveness is the only way to dissolve that link and get free.”
    Catherine Ponder quotes


    Answer by youngmom33 at 3:13 PM on Jul. 1, 2010

  • I would never forgive someone as spiteful as that.

    Answer by SoLuvlei at 3:16 PM on Jul. 1, 2010

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