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Do you expect something from your dh before you give him sex?

I don't..really..i've just noticed some comments and wonder if some ladies do. If so what is it? Do you expect oral, a nice favor or gesture, kids to be taken care of..anything? I'm not wanting to bash. I'm just curious. Sometimes i do expect a nice back massage..i guess. =) If its vice versa you can share that too.

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Asked by shay1130 at 6:04 PM on Jul. 1, 2010 in Relationships

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  • back scratch

    Answer by butterflyblue19 at 6:06 PM on Jul. 1, 2010

  • I like a little fore play but its not like i tell him he has to do it but he usually does and he will usually massage me first.

    Answer by AWebber212 at 6:07 PM on Jul. 1, 2010

  • yes..foreplay, not just snatch and grab.

    Answer by dullscissors at 6:08 PM on Jul. 1, 2010

  • I don't really expect anything, just for us to have a good day I guess. I am not trying to give anything up if he's made me mad or we are fighting, it's just not the same, so we try to have alot of good days! LOL

    Answer by LuvmyFam6 at 6:08 PM on Jul. 1, 2010

  • Yes the floors must be scrubbed, laundry washed starched and ironed, backtubs and toilets must sparkle and dinner must be waiting for me on the table. Then an only then will I give up the nookie.

    lol i would never get laid if I expected anything out of him for it.

    Answer by GavinsMommii at 6:10 PM on Jul. 1, 2010

  • I don't expect anything, but a little foreplay never hurts : )

    Answer by MeandMyBabes at 6:19 PM on Jul. 1, 2010

  • I don't expect anything--he gets it if I am in the mood.

    Answer by coala at 6:28 PM on Jul. 1, 2010

  • No, I just expect that I am in the mood... If I'm not, he can DIY it!

    Answer by SabrinaMBowen at 6:56 PM on Jul. 1, 2010

  • Just for him to not be acting like an asshole.

    Answer by vicesix at 6:57 PM on Jul. 1, 2010

  • No I don't expect anything but I usually get some forplay.

    Answer by bjane01 at 8:24 PM on Jul. 1, 2010

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