SO is in the airforce. Deployed to Iraq right now and this is the second day I have not had word from him. Im getting worried. I guess I was spoiled because we could talk every night and the slightest throw off of that makes me worry.
Then one night he came on and didnt say anything to me for 15minutes until i said hi to him. He is acting so strange. How do I brush this off and get through the days without thinking he is mad at me or freaking out when i dont hear from him.
He has been gone a month and this is my first deployment. What do i do to get through this?
I dont want to show him Im upset, I write him like nothings wrong, but still let him know how home is. I just dont know how to get over these feelings.
Asked by Anonymous at 7:57 PM on Jul. 1, 2010 in Relationships
Answer by pnwmom at 10:00 PM on Jul. 1, 2010
Answer by Librarylady60 at 8:27 PM on Jul. 1, 2010
I agree with Librarylady60.
Quoting: Important for you to get a support system that will be there 24-7. It is good for you to reach out to Moms on CM and get feedback. Try and get in a routine and keep busy and do fun things with your children. I was able to have a group of friends and we got together weekly to go to dinner, fix dinner at each others houses, go to the movies, go to the park.
I had play dates at my house for my son that was 2 at the time. Nights were the hardest, I talked on the phone alot to friends. Try as hard as you can not to have your days revolve around waiting for his call. If you have a church family, they would be a good support.
Answer by sokkamum at 9:18 PM on Jul. 1, 2010
Not in your shoes so I have no advise but wanted to send hugs ((()))
Answer by Judmr at 8:01 AM on Jul. 2, 2010
Answer by kfroz0415 at 1:12 PM on Jul. 2, 2010
Answer by LoveRed71 at 1:18 PM on Jul. 2, 2010
Answer by kfroz0415 at 1:19 PM on Jul. 2, 2010
Answer by mommy_of_two388 at 2:46 PM on Jul. 2, 2010
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