I thought i would ask my question on this site and see if anyone else here has been in my situation. I have 5yr old twin boys and they are the light of my life. Their father dissapeared for 2 yrs and shows back up with a new wife and baby. He refuses to communicate with me at all if theres a problem with the kids he doesnt care he just hangs up on me, tries to make me go through his wife with any problems which i refuse to cause i didnt make my kids with her and honestly dont care what she thinks or says. Ive managed to ignore her childish games for the most part but lately she has been putting my boys in the middle of it and has started to treat them badly since she found out she cant get the order of child support vacated. She talks badly about me to them, doesnt supervise them when they are left with her, steals every dime she can from them, and worst of all she plays favorites between them which can cause damage to twins.
Answer by matthewscandi at 7:38 AM on Jul. 2, 2010
Answer by BuddyRoo at 3:47 AM on Jul. 2, 2010
Your children are only 5 and if they are the light of your life you need to change your ways. She is the one that is taking care of them so you may have to talk to her. Getting along is more important than what you think is right (that you should talk to him). If you have shared custody then there isn't much that needs talked about. When the boys are with them what they do is up to the father and stepmother. You need to be a good enough mother to them to make up for whatever goes wrong at dad's.
If there are problems with support you need to go to the proper office or court and have it taken out of his check and direct deposited in your account. It's the father's responsibility to pay and it's strange to blame her. You may have to deal with this woman the rest of your life.
Answer by Gailll at 5:51 AM on Jul. 2, 2010
Answer by BuddyRoo at 7:05 AM on Jul. 2, 2010
Answer by BuddyRoo at 7:37 AM on Jul. 2, 2010