Why is it so difficult for a man to simply tell a woman that they aren't into them? I was seeing this guy and it was going good for about two weeks, then out of the blue, literally nothing changed, he just quit calling, texting, or coming over. I've known him for about 7 months and we were friends before anything romantic happend between us, but I just can't understand it, so I flat out asked him what was going on and he jumped around it saying he was busy and blah blah blah. Now, I'm not stupid, I know where it's going, he's lost interest but it just BURNS me up that he didnt' have the guts to just say so! He knows me and knows how I was hurt in the past by this exact same situation where I was left in the dark, and he knows I wouldn't have freaked out or gotten mad, I would have totally understood, and I would have had the respect for him to tell him if I wasn't interested...it's just SO frustrating!
Asked by Anonymous at 8:31 AM on Jul. 2, 2010 in Just for Fun
Answer by Lifes-A-Dance at 9:09 AM on Jul. 2, 2010
Answer by mommy11260 at 8:35 AM on Jul. 2, 2010
Answer by dullscissors at 8:36 AM on Jul. 2, 2010
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Answer by Jademom07 at 8:33 AM on Jul. 2, 2010
Answer by CaseyErin at 8:35 AM on Jul. 2, 2010
People don't like confrontation. I feel the same way about babysitters, why can't babysitters just tell you they aren't that interested instead of just not showing up. Okay I'm sitting waiting for my sitter who is 30 min late and not answering her phone. I'm guessing men are a lot like that too, I don't know I've been married to long.
Answer by RyansMom001 at 8:37 AM on Jul. 2, 2010
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