I didnt know where else to go! I don't want to tell family until I know for sure what is going on! And I don't want others to know who I am! I need advice! My DH and I will have been married for 3yrs on the 31st this month. He disappeared into WoW for 2.5 of those years, and I waited, raised our son, and then sons. I love him dearly! And I knew that he wouldn't play for ever! He stopped in December! He then flirted with a co-worker. I caught him just a week after she started working there. He got another job right away, a new phone number, and we started seeing someone to help us along. I was pissed. But it was flirting, nothing physical, I have video proof. And he never goes out with out me. (where he worked, I had his password to the system, so I was able to go back and watch). For 6 weeks we worked on things. Now he just wants to give up. Or so he says, but his actions say different! Please help me!
Asked by Anonymous at 3:15 PM on Jul. 2, 2010 in Relationships
Maybe you let him figure out what he wants and keep talking about it tell him what you want and sit down together to figure out a plan for your future. Maybe I am not the best person to be giving this advice after ten years with my SO i am leaving. So start talking you not the person your seeing and start saying what you want or need and expect be willing to hear him as well. Listening to SO I learned a whole lot from what he said and what he does not say. GL Momma
Answer by pinkdragon36 at 5:10 PM on Jul. 2, 2010
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