for me and the mother of his son to be friends? I have hated her since day 1. I don't think she is a very good person nor a good mother to either of her kids but especially her son. Her house is always beyond trashed and my husband wonders why I refuse to let him take our 2 children there to see his son. I love his son like he is my own I just cant stand her. He stays at home with our 2 children and has asked if she can come over to hang out and let all the kids play. I have allowed it but reluctantly. He has never cheated on me and I honestly don't think he would (we've been together for almost 4 years) and we have been through a lot(He almost left me for her when I was 5 months prego with my daughter and we were almost going to get divorced almost a year ago). What do you think? Should I try and be friends with her? or do I have a right to be weary of this??Answer Question
Asked by Anonymous at 4:42 PM on Jul. 2, 2010 in Relationships
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Answer by silversmom at 4:49 PM on Jul. 2, 2010
I understand that you hate this woman. My DH does not like the daddy of my oldest, but I have never asked them to be friends either. I think your DH just wants you guys to be friends because it might make things more comfortable for him. How nice would it be if his wife and his child's mother can be friends? And no, you don't HAVE to be friends with anyone you don't want to be friends with. Good luck.
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