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Does the sadness ever go away? I lost my baby today at 8 weeks preggo due to constant stress and fighting with the babys father.

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Asked by mommyluvshunter at 8:59 PM on Jul. 2, 2010 in Pregnancy

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  • It recedes but never goes away. We lost our daughter at 34 weeks ten years ago,and I still get weepy at times

    Answer by butterflyblue19 at 9:00 PM on Jul. 2, 2010

  • I'm so sorry, I really don't know what to say except I will say a prayer for you....If you need to talk you can message me....

    Answer by June_Mama09 at 9:01 PM on Jul. 2, 2010

  • i'm sorry but i can honestly say i've had 2 and yes i got over soon as i had my son.

    Answer by shay1130 at 9:02 PM on Jul. 2, 2010

  • Its lessens and you learn to live with it, but it never really goes away. I lost 3 pregnancies - first one in second trimester, the other two in first trimester.

    Answer by karamille at 9:02 PM on Jul. 2, 2010

  • I'm so sorry.

    Answer by QandA at 9:03 PM on Jul. 2, 2010

  • It really hurts I mean even the this babys dad and i were fighting...we both wanted this baby....:( It was his first.

    Comment by mommyluvshunter (original poster) at 9:04 PM on Jul. 2, 2010

  • It gets easier, never goes away! I have lost 5! 3 early, 1 at 16wks and my first at 22wks! It hurts still.

    Answer by clovismommy25 at 9:05 PM on Jul. 2, 2010

  • Um... I had a miscarriage at 8 weeks, too. The first thing you need to do is stop blaming the baby's father. It's a short term comfort, but will not help you heal at all.

    I held a mini service with my self and named my baby and buried him. It was actually a little toy.

    It was really hard till the birth of my next baby.

    Answer by lovinangels at 9:05 PM on Jul. 2, 2010

  • Yes, I have lost 2 both at 8 weeks. I now have a beautiful healthy daughter and I seldom think about it.

    Answer by cherylw993 at 9:07 PM on Jul. 2, 2010

  • I'm not blaming the babys father!!! It was both of our faults..and the doctor said it was due to the stress and fighting.....But i'm not blaming anyone because this could happen to anyone....l....

    Comment by mommyluvshunter (original poster) at 9:08 PM on Jul. 2, 2010

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