Hi there! I am a romance consultant for Brown Bag Party... If you have any questions please feel free to message me! Here are some tips:
Always use a lubricant. Unlike the vagina, the small amount of mucus a rectum produces is completely insufficient for anal intercourse. Therefore anal penetration should always be accompanied with an ample supply of lubricant. Water-based lubricants are latex-compatible and highly recommended.
Take it slow. When experimenting with anal sex for the first few times, go slow. There is no rush and if you take your time you will probably both enjoy the experience. There should not be a great deal of forcing required. If lubricated properly, an object should slide in somewhat easily.
Always communicate with your partner. As with any sexual activity, communication is essential. Basically, be open about your preferences and feelings, and, be receptive to theirs.
Hope this helps!
at 11:09 AM on Jul. 3, 2010