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If your not happy being married how do you make your self happy???

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janeq123

Asked by janeq123 at 8:32 PM on Jul. 3, 2010 in Relationships

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  • if u arent happy fix it,if it cant be fixed divorce!
    DeeMarie87

    Answer by DeeMarie87 at 8:34 PM on Jul. 3, 2010

  • Marriages do take a lot of work. There's so many good times and bad times, sad times.. But you have to work at it. You have to be able to forgive and move on.. You have to feel its worth the vows and words you spoke if you spoke any. You have to believe its worth it.,. Not being as throw away world! Certain times you can just devote more time to your child/children. And then work on the relationship. You have to feel you want this. You have to think of the love you both shared and how you got to where you are.. And go from there.. I wish everyone their own Happiness & happily ever after..
    Angellinda

    Answer by Angellinda at 8:40 PM on Jul. 3, 2010

  • Are you sure its really just the marriage? Not mommy blues or having your life put on hold while your kids are little? Or maybe you aren't taking enough time for yourself. Sure you can get a divorce, but if there is an underlying problem causing your unhappiness, it will still be there.
    karamille

    Answer by karamille at 8:47 PM on Jul. 3, 2010

  • First, why are you not happy being married? Happiness comes from within therefore you can find happiness within your marriage. Find out what you like, what makes you happy. Go after it. When others see you happy, they want it. I don't know if you have children, if you do, remember you are the heartbeat of the home. If mommy is not happy, no one will be. I wish you many blessings on your journey.
    mittensoup

    Answer by mittensoup at 9:03 PM on Jul. 3, 2010

  • Try marriage counseling and get to the root of the problem -- why you are not happy. You have to actually know the problem before you can try to fix it! If that doesn't work, maybe it's time to move on
    soccerchik8287

    Answer by soccerchik8287 at 1:02 AM on Jul. 4, 2010

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