my bro at 15 totaled my moms car, he didnt have a license so he was put on diversion. at 16 he was arrested for Poisson of pot. so now on double diversion and he gets tested once a month. he failed his junior yr cuz he never went to school, to busy getting high! he is stealing my moms pain meds (Oxycontin) and selling them! my parents have done NOTHING!!!! no grounding no car taken away nothing! my dad wants to do something but mom wont let him cuz my bro is sensitive???? no he is using you for money! mom gives him at least $100 a week for gas? she is supporting him her money is buying his drugs! now we live with my parents so ive talked with my bro and he doesnt care at all. i want to help but just dont know how? i know he leaves the house with drugs and a pipe on him all the time should i call the cops on him? i think he needs a swift kick in the a$$. he is 17 so its big boy jail if he gets caught!
Asked by Anonymous at 10:46 AM on Jul. 4, 2010 in General Parenting
Answer by BlainesMommy09 at 10:52 AM on Jul. 4, 2010
Personally I would stay as far away from him as possible otherwise his trouble might very well get you in trouble just by being around him and his illegal activities, if this isn't possible I'd turn him in quietly in case he is dangerous.
Answer by RyansMom001 at 10:52 AM on Jul. 4, 2010
I would call the cops.
Coming from someone who knows this all too well. Your brother is not going to get better as long as your mother is enabling him and bailing him out of trouble. He needs to know what consequences are for his actions If that means sitting in jail, so be it.. He also has to want to get better for himself, not forced into it.
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