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Do you believe the saying, "Once a cheater, always a cheater"?

 
LovingSAHMommy

Asked by LovingSAHMommy at 5:34 PM on Jul. 4, 2010 in Relationships

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  • I saw on some show, Dateline or 20/20 or something like that, marriages where an affair happened, when it is outed if they stay together they are actually stronger than ever before because the partners now see what was missing in the marriage to cause one partner to stray and they begin to really work on their problems from inside the marriage.
    jamesonjustines

    Answer by jamesonjustines at 5:59 PM on Jul. 4, 2010

  • I don't know. Fidelity is harder for some people than others. I think yes though that once you have strayed you are probably more likely to again, but I DON'T think it means you can never be faithful either. Some people mentally, emotionally and sexually leave a relationship before physically doing so. I am not condoning that, just saying.
    jamesonjustines

    Answer by jamesonjustines at 5:41 PM on Jul. 4, 2010

  • No, just because someone has cheated in the past doesn't mean they will do it again.
    Scuba

    Answer by Scuba at 5:42 PM on Jul. 4, 2010

  • No, I think some people realize what they did was a mistake and wouldnt do it again
    kassee

    Answer by kassee at 5:40 PM on Jul. 4, 2010

  • nope
    starestrada

    Answer by starestrada at 5:41 PM on Jul. 4, 2010

  • For some... but the real question is "are you willing to find out".
    As for me... not a chance I would ever take.
    sahlady

    Answer by sahlady at 5:43 PM on Jul. 4, 2010

  • No..I once WAS a cheater...
    mommy16love

    Answer by mommy16love at 5:36 PM on Jul. 4, 2010

  • No, but I'd be really really careful taking up with one.
    Bmat

    Answer by Bmat at 5:38 PM on Jul. 4, 2010

  • I don't know, I dont want to. My DH flirted with a coworker at his old job. I worry that if I hadn't caught him so fast it may have gona farther. But I will never know, thank God!
    clovismommy25

    Answer by clovismommy25 at 5:39 PM on Jul. 4, 2010

  • I think that people who cheat are more likely to do it again. But, i also think that people can change if they really want to.
    samurai_chica

    Answer by samurai_chica at 5:44 PM on Jul. 4, 2010

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