Lately more and more he has been pushing me away. Like refusing to do anything with me that used to be normal; u know just be mommy. He just asks for dad. He cries and throws a total fit if he is stuck with me, or if his daddy leaves. Its outta hand and is really beginning to hurt my feelings.
a little background; my boyfriend and I have had a few arguments, times are hard. I have a shorter temper and get louder before he does, he is the cool and collected antagonist that makes me blow.
(yes I know I need anger management)
Now heres another thing, my boyfriend says things about me to my son (his opinions of how dumb or crazy I am, or that i do things that are) I never do that, I always speak positive of him to our son.
Also when I say no or take something away from our son that I think is not ok for a 2 year old to have or do, my bf does the opposite. Ive already talked to him bout that and how we need to stand together
Asked by Anonymous at 5:49 AM on Jul. 5, 2010 in General Parenting
Answer by layh41407 at 6:22 AM on Jul. 5, 2010
I don't know how old your son is but you already answered your own question because you listed exactly the reasons you know are upsetting your son. It is scary for a child to see a parent yell and some kids are more sensitive then others, and having your bf say those things about you to anyone, especially your child is totally unacceptable. You both need to watch how you talk. You need to spend time doing things with your son that he likes to do. Good luck, I hope things turn around.
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