He turns the tables on you bc he's an immature manipulating jerk who wants to get the focus off of him and on to you. I'm going to just guess he was abusive to you in some way when you were together (emotionally, verbally maybe even physically). It's part of their behavior and it won't change without counseling. I commend your effort to attempt to allow your child to spend quality time with dad but I doubt if it happens. Find another father figure for your child, uncle, grandfather, neighbor, etc to give a positive roll model and let dad go. My dd just moved from FL to Ky to bond with her dad and she's 30. She moved across the street and he still won't bond. He's a dick. that's why I left him but she had to find out for herself.
at 5:36 PM on Jun. 28, 2008