I was with this guy for 4 1/2 years and we had some good times don't get me wrong but it ended in disaster. I almost lost my family (parents, grandparents, sisters, brothers) over this guy and he really messed me up. After months without him I finally started to feel somewhat normal again and now that he's been around again, seeing our daughter some feelings have been stirred back up to the surface and I've been all kinds of messed up and confused. Today I woke up and decided that I don't need him, don't want him and he's no good for me but I've also realized that these past 4 years i've let a man get in the way of me enjoying some of the most important things in my life...including the birth of my daughter and her first year of life. I don't know what to do with myself now. How do I get my life back? I mean obviously those years are gone...but what now?Answer Question
Asked by Anonymous at 3:36 PM on Jul. 5, 2010 in Relationships
Answer by rhianna1708 at 3:39 PM on Jul. 5, 2010
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Answer by elizabr at 3:42 PM on Jul. 5, 2010
It doesn't do any good to think of it as wasting your life. What's done is done. It's not all that rare to not remember that much about your baby's birth and first year. Moms are usually sleep deprived. There are many things that may make it hard to remember. If the baby is fussy it's common to not remember much. I was very sick when my youngest was born and he and I were both sick a lot the first year. I mostly remember hospital stays.
If you have a child together he may always be a part of your life. It sounds like you are ready to move on.
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