Talk to your doctor. Your health and risks for birth defects needs to be evaluated. Personally, I think pregnant at 43 is inadvisable. But if you choose to have a baby good luck and I wish you both health and happiness!
at 3:45 PM on Jul. 5, 2010
You need to talk to a fertility specialist, preferably one that has experience dealing with "mature" patients. They will be able to tell you the risks associated with treatment, and devise a plan for you that will minimize those risks.