I have an autistic son. I also have a jerk of an ex husband. The custody agreement says he gets him every other weekend from Friday to Sunday, we split Christmas and we alternate other holidays. He also gets two non consecutive weeks over the summer. I have always given him extra time when he asks and it fits into out schedule.
One year, I didn't have child care over Christmas break and would have had to use all my vacation. I asked if he would help. The following year when that was an issue, he wanted the same thing. When I said no, he threatened to take me to court. To avoid a fight I did it.
Last year, he wanted another week over the summer, he said if I said no, he'll take me to court. I offered him extra long weekends 2 times over the summer and he agreed.
In addition those 'two consecutive weeks" usually turn into 10 days as they go away.
Now he wants to keep him until Monday morning and take him
Answer by SassyStinger at 8:33 PM on Jul. 5, 2010
He wants more time with his son, whata's on your back about that?
Why can't he take him to school one day?
I know you want to do it, but please remember he is just as much your ex-hubby's son as he is yours.
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