Obviously, we've all been teenagers and know what it's like to have sexual feelings. Males and females have different reasons for having sex and most times are at the opposite ends of the spectrum. Girls think they are in love and guys just want to get laid. A one-night stand is purely lustful and young minds have a hard time processing that -- with exceptions, of course. Being a virgin until marriage is very rare, but kids need to realize the emotional impact this has on them at that moment. Lust is never binding. Waiting until marriage is wishful thinking, but taking it slow, getting to know someone beyond just a sex partner, is a smarter thing to do. As a parent, the generation gap, parents "not knowing anything", kids are going to do what they want to do, not understanding the impact this makes in their life. You can't stop it, and education is crucial.
at 11:29 AM on Jul. 6, 2010