My mil is freaking driving me crazy! I can't stand her right now. She's addicted to Oxycontin, even tho she denies it. It's $50 for 5 pills at the drugstore..well..
She came over, and asked me for $50-$100. I told her I had money, lying to her..cause i know she would get those pills. She then tells me to get ahold of her son(my bf), who is a huge momma's boy from work. he works lots so he can barely call her..so she calls me like 20 times at my house, and 10 times at my grandmas house. I ignore her all times exept acouple. i told her i had no money. she left me alone on the weekend then decides to call me 20 more times today. i mean, shes driving me nuts. i told bf and he thinks im calling his mom down, when he gave her 250 of our grocery money to his mom for her pills, now i have barely money left for food.he made me mad that he dont understand. its like there both attacking me and i'm here by myself with our son. ughh.
Answer by fiatpax at 9:31 AM on Jul. 6, 2010
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Answer by collier5 at 9:28 AM on Jul. 6, 2010
Answer by mommy11260 at 9:42 AM on Jul. 6, 2010
He should not be leaving you without enough money for groceries. Shame on him! You need to have a big talk and gets things straighten out. Let him know tht can not happen again... For your MIL she needs help...
Answer by Judmr at 10:10 AM on Jul. 6, 2010
Answer by bcauseimthemom at 10:38 AM on Jul. 6, 2010
Your MIL is going to have to get in BIG trouble for her or her son to wake up and realize that she has a problem, and sadly that is how it goes. Since he gave her the grocery money, he needs to go out and buy the food for everyone in the house. Make a list and let him know that he HAS to get everything on it. When he sees that he can't get everything because he gave the money away, it might open his eyes. You also need to find out more about addiction, and when both you and your BF are calm, then talk to him about how you are worried about his mom. Let him know that she is part of your life and family now that you are with him, and only want the best. Tell him that you have no problem giving her money, but it can't be for drugs, and it can't be the money you guys use for bills or food. If she needs $20-$30, it's one thing, but when she starts demanding more, there is a problem. Good luck.
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