i also tried three times IVF. The best thing I can tell you is- stop worrying and stressing. Enjoy yourself and have fun. The more pressure you have the more difficult it will be. Go have a vacation. Travel somewhere close and stay overnight somewhere different. I have been involved with TTC groups and seen it over and over- you stop worrying so much, stop trying so hard, forget about time and calendar and temperature and all the stuff you have been paying attention to, and then you enjoy your life and your husband again and you get pregnant. SO maybe that is what will help you!
You will become parents in the way that best suits your family and your needs, whatever that may be in whatever time it takes. (We eventually decided to stop trying to become pregnant and we became foster parents- have two beautiful baby boys and we are adopting one now and hopefully one by end of year.) Best wishes for you .
at 10:41 AM on Jul. 6, 2010