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Is there something wrong with me or can a woman just have a small vagina?

My husband is average size, but he hurts me when we have sex sometimes. If he puts his whole penis in, it hurts like he is hitting my cervix or something.
I know women have large partners and have no issues, so is it possible that some woman just have small vaginas and can't handle even an average penis?

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Asked by Anonymous at 10:53 AM on Jul. 6, 2010 in Relationships

Answers (9)
  • yes,its possible

    Answer by butterflyblue19 at 10:56 AM on Jul. 6, 2010

  • well it never hurts but the doctor said that some women had larger whole and some are smaller mine is smaller and sometimes i have the same problem it hurts bad but he will just have to work with u on that it is not a problem

    Answer by shannonsmom555 at 10:56 AM on Jul. 6, 2010

  • I believe so I have the same problem. And he's not a big as my ex.

    Answer by mamaofficer at 10:57 AM on Jul. 6, 2010

  • Yes it's possible and extra lube (over what you produce yourself) can help a lot. Also, some women notice this type of pain at different times during their cycle. I am like this during ovulation.

    Answer by Jademom07 at 10:58 AM on Jul. 6, 2010

  • sure it's possible. and if you had a baby, all those inside parts do get moved around. I sometimes have problems with lite size tampons.

    Answer by 2BlondeBabies at 11:00 AM on Jul. 6, 2010

  • I would imagine so.

    Answer by CAGirl4 at 11:00 AM on Jul. 6, 2010

  • Yes it's possible, also the size and shape of your cervix, but most important you might lack enough natural lubrication.


    Answer by RyansMom001 at 11:00 AM on Jul. 6, 2010

  • aside from size and lubrication, when you are fully prepped for sex your muscles might release some of that tension and pain... work on the foreplay aspect...

    Answer by figaro8895 at 1:17 PM on Jul. 6, 2010

  • i agree with figaroo

    Answer by 3xangel at 11:43 PM on Jul. 6, 2010

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