Hi my names Nikki ,
I was married in 2009 and after a abusive and hurtful relationship I left my husband. We have been separated for almost a year now. And Im with a amazing man now who excepts me and my 2 year old daughter as is she were his . But I tend to notice I am very needy when I really try not to be. I feel I need constant approval and reassurance on everything do. I get mad and jealous more then I should though I hide it well ,I know this is all because of what I have been threw but no matter how much he says he loves me that everything is fine ect. I just keep seeing this broken person with nothing to offer ... Im afraid with time he will begin to notice my moods and be scared away ... does anyone have any advice on how I can overcome this needy nature.
Found this article for you. I used to be this way too. I just kind of grew out of it & realized how awesome i am...LOL! Do what makes you happy, stick to it, find a hobby that does not involve your BF, set small goals for yourself & actually do them. Hope this article can help a little.
You need to find what makes you unique & embrace it. Love yourself first!
Answer by samurai_chica at 6:13 PM on Jul. 6, 2010
Answer by KTMOM at 4:07 PM on Jul. 6, 2010
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Answer by samurai_chica at 6:15 PM on Jul. 6, 2010
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