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..have your husband cheat on you or be forced to cheat on your husband?


Asked by LovingSAHMommy at 10:58 PM on Jul. 6, 2010 in

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  • lolol. This reminds me of a friend of mine. She's sweet as she can be, but do NOT try to be sarcastic around her! She takes everything seriously.

    Anyway, I would rather be the cheater. I would rather deal with the guilt than put it off on DH. We would both be equally hurt, though.

    Answer by renea20 at 11:09 PM on Jul. 6, 2010

  • Im gonna use a lifeline...? :)

    Answer by starestrada at 10:59 PM on Jul. 6, 2010

  • there is no such thing as being forced to cheat. Cheating a choice to abandon your marriage and it's a choice that you make on your own, no one else makes it for you or can for you to make it, and no my husband has never cheated on me, he never will, i have never cheated on my husband and i never will because our marriage vows meant something to us

    Answer by katiekruschke at 11:01 PM on Jul. 6, 2010

  • I feel worse if I was cheated on I have anger issue and probably do something really bad. I would have to be the cheater

    Answer by Claudiomom at 11:06 PM on Jul. 6, 2010

  • i'd rather be the cheater.

    I know my husband would forgive me and i know exactly how i would feel and how i would handle it. But i don't know what i would do if i found out my husband cheated on me. He's the only man i've ever trusted. It would be extremely devastating for me if he cheated. but i know he never will. :)

    Answer by outstandingLove at 11:06 PM on Jul. 6, 2010

  • Be a cheater :) I'd won't to be the one having the fun

    Answer by crazymom21 at 11:11 PM on Jul. 6, 2010

  • In a previous relationship I've been in both positions, neither felt good.
    In my current relationship, I'd rather him cheat. I'd be a mean nasty bitch to him but I'd be more likely to forgive him than he would me.

    Answer by dmdblleb at 11:48 PM on Jul. 6, 2010

  • forced to cheat? isn't force considered rape...and rape is not cheating.

    Answer by june_kitten at 10:59 PM on Jul. 6, 2010

  • be forced to cheat

    Answer by jennifer588 at 11:00 PM on Jul. 6, 2010

  • How about neither


    Answer by pinkdragon36 at 11:00 PM on Jul. 6, 2010

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