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Hubby thinks it's funny to tell me to shut up

. I've told him how it makes me feel but he acts like im too sensitive. He'll say it when Im talking to him or making a coment about something. this just started about 2 months ago.

 
Anonymous

Asked by Anonymous at 1:25 PM on Jul. 7, 2010 in Relationships

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Answers (14)
  • Give him what he wants. Don't say another word to him...the silent treatment really sucks. ;)
    kimberlyinberea

    Answer by kimberlyinberea at 1:27 PM on Jul. 7, 2010

  • Tell him again. If it bothers you then it bothers you. It doesn't matter if HE thinks it's no big deal, it's a big deal to you and you've asked him to stop. He's not respecting your feelings.

    Start telling him he has a small penis. If he gets upset, tell him he's being too sensitive. See how he likes it.
    Laila-May

    Answer by Laila-May at 1:27 PM on Jul. 7, 2010

  • Let him know "What did the five Fingers say to the face?" SLAP! lol
    navajomama7

    Answer by navajomama7 at 1:44 PM on Jul. 7, 2010

  • I agree with kimberlyinberea.
    There's no excuse for that crap.
    CAGirl4

    Answer by CAGirl4 at 1:30 PM on Jul. 7, 2010

  • He doesn't care how it makes you feel, or he wouldn't be doing it. You are going to have to set some consequences for his doing it, just as you would for a child. If you need help doing that, get the book BOUNDARIES IN MARRIAGE by Drs. Henry Cloud and John Townsend. Then just tell him the next time he tells you to shut up, this is what is going to happen. Then be sure you follow through. Empty threats won't help at all, just like with a child.
    NannyB.

    Answer by NannyB. at 1:34 PM on Jul. 7, 2010

  • Give the silent treatment and no sex, he won't like that very much at all.....
    Peekalou

    Answer by Peekalou at 1:45 PM on Jul. 7, 2010

  • Start telling him he has a small penis. If he gets upset, tell him he's being too sensitive. See how he likes it.
    ----------------------------------this answer deserves repeating---------------------------
    fiatpax

    Answer by fiatpax at 1:45 PM on Jul. 7, 2010

  • Let him know "What did the five Fingers say to the face?" SLAP! lol .....maybe one finger will do the job!!!!
    fiatpax

    Answer by fiatpax at 1:46 PM on Jul. 7, 2010

  • Then you should tell him to shut up! Really I wouldn't put up with that.
    Katt709

    Answer by Katt709 at 1:49 PM on Jul. 7, 2010

  • tell him he is not allowed to be verbally abusive, and that includes telling you to shut up as well as dismissing your feelings.
    figaro8895

    Answer by figaro8895 at 1:56 PM on Jul. 7, 2010