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Anyone else dealing with incontinence and sex?

I'm just not figuring it out. I gave up receiving oral sex over it but don't want to give up doing the do over it. I can't wear a pad or he'll think I'm on my cycle and stop. I'm trying to invent something clever that covers just that part that needs to be covered but not doing a good job since there is nothing to adhere it to if one is without panties. I wondered if anyone else had a better idea.


Asked by admckenzie at 4:47 PM on Jul. 7, 2010 in Health

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  • I had the same problem after having two kids. It was because the births had stretched the muscles that holds up the bladder, so my dr. put a sling up (out-patient and covered by my insurrance), and ever since sex (and lots of other stuff) has been a breeze :-D

    Answer by Nynne at 5:02 PM on Jul. 7, 2010

  • Kegels?? Medication.

    Answer by JGRIMMER at 4:50 PM on Jul. 7, 2010

  • The only thing that comes to mind is to do Kegel exercises. They will strengthen your muscles down there and therefore it will be more natural and easier for your body to "hold it." Hope this helps!

    Answer by naturalhome at 4:51 PM on Jul. 7, 2010

  • i vote keegels.

    Answer by happy2bmom25 at 5:14 PM on Jul. 7, 2010

  • Kegals doesn't work so am thinking nynne might have a good idea

    Comment by admckenzie (original poster) at 10:12 PM on Jul. 8, 2010