How do you find?

I wish some people would stop complying just to get points. You are not going to change it by griping. Just put on your big girl panties and look for them. I find them just fine.

*Complaining.

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I don't know what to tell you

jeebus- havee a little fun in life! why complain about people having a bit of a good time with this?
the real questions are still here...
*you could always JUST search for questions in the categories YOU like

My answer will no doubt be unpopular... but here goes....I learned a few years ago from my adult,single daughters that to date a man is to "sleep with him." You don't have to know him, just desire a physical relationship with him. I was aghast ! "But Mama"was their reply, "we only date one guy at a time, We really do want to get to know him".....Is there anything wrong with this picture?...I'm not pro or con marriage. But how about getting to know someone and caring for him before sleeping with him. If you need to know if he's any good in bed before investing the time...I must tell you a man you love, or at least care about, is always a better lover. Sleeping with a man too early in a relationship is cutting your own throat.