That made you decide to get divorced? Sorry I know it's personal, but I'm just wondering. I'm just at wits end and wondered how I am compared with everyone else.
Asked by Anonymous at 2:05 PM on Jul. 8, 2010 in Relationships
Answer by jamesonjustines at 2:07 PM on Jul. 8, 2010
Answer by heratyc at 2:16 PM on Jul. 8, 2010
Answer by admckenzie at 3:08 PM on Jul. 8, 2010
For me it was when my husband looked me in the eye and lied to me about something he knew was important to me. I already had the answer to the question, I just wanted him to tell me the truth about it -- but he couldn't/didn't. We had been to months of marriage counseling, and he had promised so many times that he understood how I felt, that he knew I needed to be able to trust him, and that he would stop lying. Having him do that to me was the tip of the iceberg, the second the words came out of his mouth I just knew he had not changed, and was not going to change, and I could not stand that the 1 person in the world I was supposed to be able to trust more than anyone, would lie to me like that.
Answer by soccerchik8287 at 4:12 PM on Jul. 8, 2010