He works part-time and goes to school, I work fulltime and take care of my DD. I sent him, "I am not asking you to provide more for me, I just wish it mattered to you that I do work 50 hours a week at a job I hate and continue to put off my education so you can finish getting yours. All you ever do is tell me that its my own fault and if I'm not happy then I should change it, but if I didn't do this, we wouldn't have the financial freedom that we do. I sacriface for our family and so you can get your career going. But rather then acknowledging it and telling me I do a good job, you tell me its my own fault and to change it. Your right, I can change it on my own. But one of the benefits of being in a relationship is that I shouldn't have to do it alone anymore, I'm supposed to have support and encouragement, but I don't get that. This is not how things are supposed to be."
What kind of reaction should I expect?
Asked by Anonymous at 5:07 PM on Jul. 8, 2010 in Relationships
Answer by browningmom at 5:11 PM on Jul. 8, 2010
Answer by Hazelnutkin at 5:15 PM on Jul. 8, 2010
Answer by layh41407 at 5:17 PM on Jul. 8, 2010
Answer by mamaofficer at 10:21 PM on Jul. 8, 2010
Answer by TarLion at 1:06 PM on Jul. 9, 2010