well i try to talk with my mom one time, but she only said to me what she want to and them she just hang up!
but today i tried today again! i told her hi, i ask her how she is doing, i told her i miss her... i think she was crying and i ask her why she is crying? she told me it is nothing! i told her that i'm so sorry for no being the daughter that she wanted me to be. but i told her if she will be able to accept my life has a teen mom, she told me that i dissaponted her so much , that i'm still a child.
i agree with her!
the problem is that she told me that we won't be like we used to be, i told her mom before i got pregnant we used to fight and i thought i didn't need you for anything but now i realize how stupid i was!
she told me that if my dad was alived he would be so disappointed with me!
she told me that she never thought that i was having sex because i was only 15 i was just a child! she is right?
Asked by Anonymous at 9:36 PM on Jul. 8, 2010 in Relationships
Answer by jennifer588 at 9:41 PM on Jul. 8, 2010
Answer by butterflyblue19 at 9:45 PM on Jul. 8, 2010
Answer by ArmyWifeAshlie at 9:46 PM on Jul. 8, 2010
Answer by Ibulili at 9:49 PM on Jul. 8, 2010
You weren't a child at 15. Teens are not children. Teens have always had sex in all societies. In our society it's almost always difficult financially for a girl that gets pregnant as a teen. It is a society issue.
Your mother shouldn't call you a child or make you feel guilty by saying your father would be disappointed in you. You have gotten that message. What you need is for you mother to say I love you and I will help you so you and your bab can have a good life. That's what I would say. You are already pregnant there is no need to talk about how you got pregnant, ect.
My son and his girlfriend got pregnant and I let her move in with us. We had 5 people living in a two bedroom apartment and we were going to have a baby! Sadly, the baby was stillborn.
Answer by Gailll at 9:50 PM on Jul. 8, 2010
Answer by JennCharisma at 9:51 PM on Jul. 8, 2010
Answer by SaraP1989 at 10:08 PM on Jul. 8, 2010
I can't imagine why you would choose to have a child at 15. At this point, you and your baby's father have to seriously figure out what is best for the child; the two of you no longer matter.
It is not too late to find a family with the emotional and finacial strength to raise a baby.
Good luck to all of you.
Answer by rkoloms at 7:32 AM on Jul. 9, 2010