I mean I can understand that you think things are perfect and that nothing could ruin the relationship you and your SO have, but do you really think NOTHING is ever going to happen to break it up. I know it is silly to think about 24/7 and I am not saying that I do but I take into consideration some things and never tell myself that this situation will never happen to me because I have no idea. I try to make things that make me uncomfortable a discussion that I talk to my SO about and then we get stronger as a couple but again I can not say that NOTHING will ever happen to break us apart because I have no idea. I do not worry or stress out about things but I do have a clear head that I know at any moment life can change, people change...nothing is permanent not even love. I just live my life knowing that right now we love each other and we take each problem as they come at us. Is this how other people see it and live?
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Answer by Memigen at 9:51 AM on Jul. 9, 2010
I think the longer you are in a situation or relationship, the more secure you become. It almost becomes second nature. We cannot avoid some tragic events that may occur in our lives but we if we obsess on the future possibility of these events, then we miss out on enjoying the moments that we have. Once time has passed, you can never get it back and I think you really realize this as you become older. So I try to "take time & smell the flowers" and I have realized that ignorance is bliss too.
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Answer by shay1130 at 10:04 AM on Jul. 9, 2010
I never say never but sh*& happens and I am a solid and strong person by myself so if some people say never its not my place to point it out. I just move on with my life every day after fighting cancer with my 16 year old who was two at the time gaining and losing a ton of weight. fighting with my mom to have her stop calling CPS, getting dumped for being pregnant having a relationship for 9 years with no sex. Anything is possible. Now running Iron man having my own business and graduating from college the relationship is important but not important enough for me to think what if.
Answer by pinkdragon36 at 10:08 AM on Jul. 9, 2010
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