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(pagans & wiccans only) is there a spell to make your husband and father of your children healthy in his mind and soul

He has been getting off track, not putting his family first.
Is there a spell that can take the selfish out of a person?


Asked by Anonymous at 3:08 PM on Jul. 9, 2010 in Religion & Beliefs

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Answers (7)
  • Insight spell:
    No one seems willing to help you. I work ancient European magick. This is an insight spell. It doesn't interfer with his free will--it just directs it in the right direction. You need: A white votive candle inscribed with his name. This is the incantation you should say as you light it and watch it burn.
    Chant: “Grant (hubby's name) the wisdom to make the right choice. Give him the spiritual guidance to do what is right. Fill him with courage to take the right stand. Grant him the wisdom to leave his old life behind and cleave to his family. Three times three, let him see. Three times three, set him free. As I will, so shall it be and no innocents harm.”

    Let it burn 10 to 15 minutes or, if you have the time, until it goes out by itself. Take care. Don't do it in anger. Be calm or the spell will rebound onto you.

    Answer by witchqueen at 4:09 PM on Jul. 9, 2010

  • IMHO spells cast on other people without their consent and or knowledge are BAD! You should never force anything on anyone, even if it's what you want for them.

    Answer by Anonymous at 3:10 PM on Jul. 9, 2010

  • eek...that might be dipping into the realm of "interfering with free will" which is a no-no.

    Answer by MamaK88 at 3:36 PM on Jul. 9, 2010

  • Sure there is. There are plenty of spells out there for everything; every single wish, want, desire, and intention known to all mankind. There are consequences for using them. The price is steep.
    Will it work? It depends.
    Should you do it? If you have to ask, then no.
    Are there other alternative ways to achieve similar ends? Sure is, and often cheaper in the moral price-tag.
    If your seeking a quick fix, pull out the cookbooks and bake an apple pie. Serve with ice cream. Be nice. Don't nag. Fluff the pillows. Pamper him. Offer sex and seconds. Repeat daily.


    Answer by isabellalecour at 3:53 PM on Jul. 9, 2010

  • AHH, I just was looking through my old spell books and found something simular to Witchqueens.....LOL That is a very good one, it is more of a clearing of negative energy in your lives to basically help him see clearly. It does not change his will but it will clear the path out a little more.

    Answer by pnwmom at 4:20 PM on Jul. 9, 2010

  • Like Witchqueen said, be calm and KNOW it will work. Let that calm and peace flow over you. Surround yourself with love and light.

    Answer by pnwmom at 4:22 PM on Jul. 9, 2010

  • So you want to control him without having to communicate or work thing out like a normal married couple. You want to just magically make him what you want. Yeah...THAT is not selfish???

    Spells and magic are all in your head so I suggest you see a marriage counselor and really work out your problems before something truly bad happens between the two of you. He might not even realize that you are unhappy.

    Answer by amber710 at 6:30 PM on Jul. 9, 2010